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Bill and his niece Betty live together. Betty can be very helpful to Bill, but there are times when Betty gets impatient with Bill when he is moving around the apartment. She pushes him to move faster, causing him to fall. She tells Bill that he is old, clumsy, and useless. Recently, Betty poured boiling water on Bill's hand as she was making him a cup of tea. Bill screamed as the water hit his hand and badly burned it. Bill's neighbour heard the screams and immediately called the police as it was not the first time that she had heard Bill screaming.

The characters and events depicted in this scenario are entirely fictitious. Any similarity to actual persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental.


Link Do you think that Betty is abusing Bill?

Link What are some indicators that suggest an older adult is being physically abused?

Link The neighbour called the police and they arrived at Bill’s apartment. What can the police do when they arrive at Bill’s apartment?

Link Has Betty committed a crime?

Link If Bill wants to involve the legal system, what does he have to do?

Link The police decide not to lay charges but warn Betty to be careful when helping Bill. Betty gets very upset with Bill and becomes more abusive. After talking with his neighbour, Bill decides to hire someone to help him and asked Betty to move out of his apartment. Betty does not move. What can Bill do to keep Betty away?


Is Betty abusing Bill?

Yes, Betty is physically and verbally abusing Bill.


What are some indicators that suggest an older adult is being physically abused?

An older adult may display some or all of the following:

NOTE: Some of these indicators may be present and the older adult is not being abused.


What can the police do when they arrive at Bill’s apartment?

The police will talk separately to Bill and to Betty. This is part of the investigation process.

They may lay charges if they have enough evidence that Bill has been abused.


Has Betty committed a crime?

Betty has committed an offence against Bill for pouring boiling water over Bill's hand. She could be charged as having committed assault, aggravated assault, or unlawfully causing bodily harm.

Assault is:

Although Betty has been verbally abusive to Bill, in these particular circumstances there is little that the law can do about that. The only kind of verbal abuse that is a criminal offence is a threat to kill or physically harm someone.


If Bill wants to involve the legal system, what does he have to do?

He has to make a criminal complaint.


What can Bill do to keep Betty away?

He can apply for court orders. These court orders tell Betty to stay away. If Betty does not stay away, she can be punished. Bill needs to talk to a lawyer or someone who understands these orders to decide which order to apply for.

link Emergency Protection Order under the Protection Against Family Violence Act
This is an order that police can obtain from the court to provide immediate protection to Bill.

link Queen's Bench Protection Order under the Protection Against Family Violence Act
This is an order that can be requested in a non-emergency situation.

link Restraining Order through the Civil Courts
A restraining order is an order made by a judge that would order Betty to stay away from Bill and prohibit her from hurting or threatening to hurt him.

link Peace Bond through the Criminal Courts
A peace bond is an order from a criminal court. A court can grant a peace bond that would require Betty to have no contact with Bill and to stay away from specific locations.

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Updated: October 30, 2003
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